How joining works
From the door to the living community.
You tap Join
The invite brings you into our welcome room. That’s all a newcomer can see at first.
A quick verification
Our mod team checks in with you before the rest of the Den
opens up. It’s quick, and it’s how we keep the wrong people out.Welcome in
Once you’re verified, the whole community opens up. Say hi, or just settle in and make yourself at home.
Our gate, explained
About safety, never about how trans you are.
Verification isn’t a test of whether you’re trans enough. There’s no HRT requirement, no passing requirement and no timeline, and questioning girls are welcome too.
What it does is stop chasers, trolls and bad actors from wandering into a space where girls are being open about their lives. That’s the whole point of the gate.
Inside, the same rule holds: zero tolerance for anyone policing how trans someone is.
Inside the Den
Moderation that actually shows up.
- An active mod team
Mods keep an eye on the community and step in when something’s wrong.
- Reports taken seriously
If someone makes you uncomfortable, tell a mod. Every report is taken seriously.
- Privacy-respecting rules
What girls share in the Den
is treated with care. Respecting each other’s privacy is a house rule. - Respect, always
No ranking transitions and no “transer than thou” energy. Every journey counts.
Your own privacy
Stay as private as you like.
- Any name, any avatar
You never need your legal name or a photo of yourself. You can even use a different nickname in the Den
than the one you use elsewhere on Discord. - Cameras and mics optional
Voice nights are always optional, and so is turning your camera on.
- Leave anytime
No commitment, no hard feelings. You can leave whenever you like.
Before you knock
Questions, answered with love.
Is The Pink Den safe?
Yes. It’s actively moderated, and new members pass a quick verification step before they can see the rest of the community, which keeps chasers and bad actors out.
Why does The Pink Den have a verification step?
To keep chasers, trolls and bad actors away from a space where girls share personal things. It’s about safety, never about proving you’re trans enough.
Do I need to be on HRT or pass to get verified?
No. There’s no HRT requirement, no passing requirement and no timeline. Questioning folks are welcome too.
What if someone makes me uncomfortable?
Tell a mod. The mod team takes every report seriously and will step in.
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